I think that the safety net of a church building encourages people to have an us and them attitude,it provides a safety net for this attitude ,when what ought to be happening is that we ought to be talking to all kinds of people within our community and getting to know them,this is how all connections are formed.
I have previously lived in an area where traditional churches were closing down, where
there was one church which still thrives strongly today because it is built within
the community.It has a vicar but no church building,services are held in a local school hall, music by a local group of musicians.The members of the church
hold reading groups in the school ,bible story plays , messy church where parents come too, they have meetings on local housing estates, where people can come to talk over their personal problems, and can be prayed with should they wish
they also hold weekday services in old peoples sheltered accomadation
and have a time of social accord and anyone with needs or problems to be talked about can do so. etc . etc. this is how you bind the myriad groups of human beings together by getting to know them where they are.
Anne Coffey