Q4. (Matthew 11:12; Luke 16:16) Admittedly, this is a hard passage to interpret. However, if you take the "forceful" or "violent" people as seekers who are doing whatever it takes to press into the Kingdom, then what is Jesus teaching us here about the nature of the Kingdom?[/font]
I felt better about this question after looking up Strong's number G971 (the Strong's reference used in this verse for the word "violence" which refers you to G970)
From G970; to force, that is,
(1)(reflexively) to crowd oneself (into),
or (2)(passively) to be seized: - press, suffer violence.
I feel comfortable applying definition 1 (reflexive), to crowd oneself (into) because the word "violent" seems a bad fit when speaking of Christian activities. Whereas "to crowd oneself into" is more gentle but still aggressive in the sense that you want to fit in with the mass of folks that want to take John's road to eternal peace and are willing to be pushed and shoved a bit in the crowd to accomplish the feat.
Definition 2 (Passive) explains the violence as being something done to you (i.e.-pushing and shoving) which is more acceptable than actually being violent in order to gain entrance to heaven. E.g. "I'm getting to heaven if I have to kill someone" just won't work.