Well having fellowship on a deeper level comes with time . Joining a group being commented each week month . Praying together even if at first it feels funny. Being there helping out each other. Also i read above what is said in the group stays in the group cool thing to have . Be accountable to someone to ask you the hard questions. These are some of my ideas . Also don't become isolated the internet is not a real church but a tool . The net can offer fellowship but if you can you should get out to a real people church . (