Old Jerry

The relationship between patience to humility is that you have to have patience to be humble. The thing that motivates impatient outbursts is we want something done or said and we want it now. We have got an agenda and we want to complete it as soon as possible. It takes patience to have God work in our “long-suffering”. Forbearance is vital in marriage because you have to put with them and they have to put up with you.

I have always thought that being submissive is being humble. Opposing church leaders often exhibit pride because they want to look better then you. When I have to submit to a harsh person, all I have to do is keep in mind that I am submitting to the Lord.

Humility shows respect to others that shows that we are putting them above ourselves. It shows that we honor them by what they do and we don’t disrespect them. I think to minister to someone for whom we have no respect we have to ask God for some help. When we interrupt someone, it shows disrespect because we don’t think what they are saying is worth listening to.

The difference between temperance and abstinence is that you will do something in moderation and abstinence means you won’t do it at all. Alcohol and drugs make you mind go numb and you do dumb things and it disrupts your humble life. To me self-control and “moderations in all things” are about the same.

Good deeds show that you have got others in mind and in that you have humility. In the early church, they shared their food and sold land to help those that could not provide for themselves. I don’t think that you can have faith without good deeds.

Pride fuels conflict because we think we have to be better than the other person. Fighting and quarreling prevent a peaceable life because you are always fighting. The root of fighting is because we want and do not ask. I respond to conflict by telling what I believe and letting the other person tell what they believe and leave it at that.

Following God’s way makes us humble because we are following God’s commands and not our own.

Pride is God’s adversary because we think that we can do it all when we really need God’s help. God has given us a gift so that we can accomplish certain things. But it is always God grace that forgives us. God “lifting us up in due time” looks like when we have been praying about a situation and it doesn’t look like it will ever happen and then it does. That is all because of God’s timing.

The role that pride has in this world is to be proud of what you can do but give the glory to God. You should always give it your best shot. But you should always thank God for the gift that He has given you. If you are “stealing the glory”, then as a rule there is no glory to steal. If you give the glory to God, then things will work out better for you.

The small businesspeople can promote themselves without sinful boasting by just being honest about what they can do and how they can do it.

Flattery might be OK in some circumstances but as a rule it shouldn’t be used. It’s usually used to manipulate somebody into doing something they don’t think they should do. I don’t think God views flattery very honorably.

The role of ambition in leadership is to try to get the best for those that work for you. The leader wouldn’t be in their position without ambition.

Faith is related to Christian assertiveness by knowing that we are doing God’s work. It takes courage to keep on doing God’s work. If we have submitted to God’s will, then we can be assertive. Assertiveness is one thing and humility is another and there is no comparative between the two.

I think that Moses was called the humblest man in the world because he did what God told him to do. He was always looking to God for guidance. Jesus was the same way that he could only do what the Father instructed him to do so He was always in touch with God. The leaders today can also be humble if they keep in touch with God.

Motives is probably one of the most important to humility because it says why we are doing it. If our motive is for people to see us then we are not being genuinely humble. If it to advance someone else then we are being humble. We have to work on our hearts daily to make them humbler. To guard our hearts mean we should be careful of what we do and why we do it.