In some cultures, church leaders are seen as "conciliators" or "moderators," bringing resolution of problems in consensus-building ways, so often pastors avoid confrontation until absolutely necessary, or even avoid it completely, seeing confrontation as a sign that they failed. Confrontation can make everyone sit up and notice, can make people see that not everything can be compromised away, can teach that there are some absolutes (a song in the 90's says, "there is a line I will not cross"). When we (leaders) refuse to confront when we should, some followers will become discouraged, and God's will may not be done.