To me it is prevented by all the good possibilities out there, if only we are plugged in (raqdio, phone, msn, TV, etc. etc.) This keeps me from getting below the surface. Plugged, I don't have to think too deeply or long. There needs to be extended, unplugged, open unhurried times in which to study scripture, discuss, brainstorm, pray together. Then built in time of quiet, reflection, evaluation. Time to write goals, ideas, plans that we feel God is planting in our lives.