Too often pride creeps in. Ego and Will-worship takes us far away from humility. we fail to recognize that it is God who has breathed the breath of life in our nostrils. Independence or rather, self-dependence, is taught and emphasized right from a young age. When these needs are met, man now begins to rely more and more on himself than on the 'giver of all good gifts'. Total reliance on God, even for the smallest of things, or things that seem so trivial or silly, actually shows deep reliance on the only provider. Abiding comes with obedience. we do not seek from God because of fear that we might lose our independence; fear that this would entail obedience and loss of freedom keeps us from asking God. 'What is God tells me to do something that i am not comfortable with?' is a sceptics question. False Ego and pride are other reasons. Ignorance and unbelief are also reasons. Asking God to give, even when we can earn, keeps us humble. we realize that 'apart from Christ we can do nothing.' We need to continually abide in him to be able to bear fruit, be it spritual or be it physical. Asing God is acknowleding that He alone is Jehovah Jireh.