Q1. (1:2-4) What value have trials had in your life? Have you let Satan destroy you with those trials? Or allowed God to refine you? How have you changed?
Trials, we all have them, but it is good to know that indeed they don't come from God, but as I understand, we have certain, maybe not even conscious evil desires, that God knows are there, and the only way to show them up to us so that we can confess them and He can clean them away from us is through certain trials/ problems.
When we encounter the problem, our human sinful nature wants to run and hide, or fight, etc in other words, we naturally have the desire to deal with it our way, not God's. We eventually come to the place of .waiting patiently on the Lord. This is a good place to be because we are calm and at peace. How do we arrive at this point? Our focus.
Every vengeful, fearful thought, every tempting idea, surrender it to God over and over again 100 times per minute if necessary, (resist the devil and he will flee)and choose to dwell instead on anything good,... bible promises,bible stories, picture Jesus with his disciples along the beach at sunset, whatever you can to get your mind off of the trial..... "though wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee.
Remember, there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God! As you progress in treating the trial like this, ask God to show you what it is you are supposed to overcome in this situation. In this state of focusing on the Lord, and dwelling in his peace, it is easy to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit showing us 'the way" both of the fault we possess that he is trying to cleanse us of, and the way to deal with our problem. We may fail, flounder, and fall, but, no worries, He will allow the same problem in another form our way again, so that we can finally be cleansed of that particular sin. Why? Of course, because he loves us and wants to spend eternity with us and this my friends, we can count as "All Joy"!